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4Feb/082

It’s Messy

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I just got done reading a blog by a guy named Gary Lamb. It was a very weird experience. It was weird because I know that three years ago, my emotions wouldn’t have been the same. As I read his words, my heart broke for the people that he was talking about. Even now I have this weird mixture of sorrow, compassion, passion, and shame.

It broke my heart to hear about about the person who joined his church for selfish reasons. How many people do I know that are like that. They just join a church because they want to be edgy. There is no desire for the lost. No desire to serve. It’s just about their own selfish desires. This breaks my heart because people are looking for the hope that we have, and we’re just filling our own personal pride. It’s depressing.

Then my heart starts to break for those that are involved in his church. As he told the stories about the people committing suicide and lives being destroyed by drugs, I couldn’t help but feel compassion. Over the past few years, my heart has been drawn to those who are outcasts of the church. My heart goes out to the guy who only lives for the next fix, the single mom who strips to make ends meet, the guy who tries to fill the void in his life by sleeping with every girl in sight, and the girl who sleeps with him because she has never really known the love of a true father. Gary’s stories hit me at my core.

More than ever this gives me a passion to plant a church. The church in America is dying. Over the last 100 years, “the number of churches increased just over 50 percent while the population of the country has almost quadrupled. This decline in church-to-population ratio helps to explain the decline of the North American church during the past century.”* Plus a lot of the new churches being planting aren’t reaching people who don’t know God. Like Gary said, they are reaching Christians who are just tired of their current church. We need churches who are showing the love and hope that is only available through Jesus. But they are few and far between.

This is why I felt shameful. I know that for some time my only hope was to plant a church that was “cool.” I wanted to be known as the edgy church. I wanted to plant a church that religious people wouldn’t come to, but that cool and edgy Christians came to. I didn’t want to get my hands dirty. I didn’t want reach out to the outcasts. But I know now that I need to repent of that mindset. I know where God has called me and it’s time to get my hands dirty. I don’t know if I have what it takes…but I do know I have the One who can take me through it all.

*Ed Stetzer – Planting Missional Churches pg. 9

24Jan/082

Waaaaa. I’m Not Getting Fed

Baby Crying

Over the past few weeks I have been following a series of blogs done by Vince Antonucci titled “Waaaaa. I’m not getting fed.” You need to go read all seven (it’s actually more) of them right now.  Here is a link to the first one.  I must say that I have completely enjoyed every word that the man has written. He has hit the nail on the head as far as American Christianity has gone.

We have become such a consumer mentality society that it has even crept into the church. I even use to have the mentality that it is the pastor’s job to feed me (probably is the reason that I went to church five times a week when I was growing up). Put the reality is that the pastor’s job is to teach us how to cook.

Ephesians 4:11-12 says, “And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ.” The pastors and teachers jobs are to “equip” not feed. By equipping they are building the body up.

I remember telling my youth in Olton that if the only time you are opening you Bible is on Wednesday (or Sunday for most), then you are starving yourself. I have to say that I use to be the same way. The only time I opened my Bible was when I was going to church or when I was preparing for a lesson.

The greatest joy in my life has been over the past few months as I’ve started to spend time with God daily for no other reason than to just sit at His feet and learn. Before it was a chore to open my Bible. Now it is a pleasure.

Now I sound like one of those sappy Christians that I use to hate (who am I kidding I still have problems with them). But it is the truth. I feel different when I haven’t spent time with God. It feels like when I have to go to work while my wife is still in bed and I don’t get to talk to her until she gets home from work at 5pm. There is just something missing from my day.

So if you are the type of person who only eats once a week…I’d recommend adding to your diet.

P.S. I’ll post a blog in a few days on some tips and tricks for having a daily time with God.

22Jan/088

Huckabee Hater

Mike Huckabee

Ok so let me clear the air from the start…I don’t hate Mike Huckabee. I haven’t met the guy and to be honest I really haven’t checked him out that much (I’m a Ron Paul fan). But I have to say one thing about the guy just really gets on my nerves.

Whether it is by his design or not, it seems like his entire platform for president is, “I’m a Christian.” I know this might sound really weird since I’m a Christian, but follow me for a second.

I have known several people in my life who say they are Christians (and they probably are) and they are just complete jerks/idiots. We need to judge people by their actions…not their words. Therefore I think to vote for a person just because they say they are a Christian, is just plain stupid. The same goes for voting for a person based on their gender or race…it’s just plain dumb.

So I’m not a Huckabee hater (I’ll check him out if he get the Rep. nomination), but I do hate the trend/campaigning that says to vote for him just because he is a Christian. So my recommendation is to look past the words/race/gender and look at the actions of the candidates. You’ll sleep better at night.

22Jan/082

Give it up.

$666It has always been interesting to me to look at the trends of cash flow in churches. I just heard a sermon about how a church was close to half-a-million in the hole (their a very large church). The pastor gave a state of the church address and the giving increased and they ended the year with a surplus (Where the heck was all that money before?).

Now a lot of people would think of this as a wonderful story in God’s provision. Which it is. But I also see it as a sad state of the people’s hearts. I’ve seen this in our own church. The church is having trouble making the budget (which is based off peoples giving from the previous year), the pastor gives a hint at the joy of giving (which it is), and the giving goes back up.

Why does it always take and emergency for the church to give? Why do we have to be reminded to give? Why does it always take a drastic event in our lives in order for us to be generous? Why are we so stingy with our money and possessions?

This is something that is always at the front of my mind. I know what it is like to be in ministry and to know that you could spread the cause of Jesus in great ways….but….you don’t have the finances. I would say that this is sometimes one of the biggest stumbling blocks in ministry. You know God is calling you to do something, but you can’t see how you would be able to finance it.

And you and me being the good Christians we are (or not) say, “If God is calling you to do something, don’t worry because He will provide.” But what we really mean behind those words are, “If God is calling you to do something, don’t worry because He will provide…through someone other than me.”

I had a moment of enlightenment when I was in college. I was a poor college student (which for some is a load of crap statement…but that is another blog), and I went out to eat with a group guys. At the end of the meal, an older gentleman in the group payed for the meal. I remember telling him how I wish I could do the same. And he responded in the kindest of words, “If you aren’t generous when you have nothing, then you won’t be generous when you have everything.”

It’s stuck with me to this day. That was a changing point in my life. Before then, I was only generous and giving when I had extra money (which was like never). From that point on, I have tried my best to give at every opportunity I had. My generosity comes before my excess.

I think this is what Jesus is calling us to do as Christians. He tells us in Matthew that He will take care of us. Therefore, we should invest in the things that are of His heart. As we invest in Him, we grow closer to Jesus, “for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

We shouldn’t be generous only when we have money or see a need. We should be generous all the time. Churches should never have to worry about money. It should be the only non-profit organization in the world that should never have to worry about their cash flow. The word Christian should be synonymous with generous.

The funny thing is that once I started being more generous…the more I enjoyed it. I just hope that you would give it a chance.

19Jul/070

“I am going to the lesbian bar”

I must say that last night was a night to remember. Our church recently started gathering on Wednesday nights for something we are calling S.O.M.A. It’s been really cool. We’ve been learning about loving people and building relationships.

So I’m sitting in our group discussion when my phone begins to vibrate in my pocket. Wondering who might be calling me on a Wednesday night, I pulled it out to check the caller id. To my joy, I had received a text message from my wife. I think somewhere in the Bible it says that it’s a sin to read a text message during a church group Bible study, but I did anyways. So I flipped open my phone to read,

“I am going to the lesbian bar call me when you are done”.

Many thoughts and feelings went through me at that moment: First I laughed a little. Then I thought to myself “the” lesbian bar…I thought there would be more. Does she want me to pick her up? Should I leave and call her now? I need to show this to Keith and Sandra (some friends in the group). Should I text her back? A lesbian bar? Is that Pulse or is that a gay bar?

But the main thing that had happened, was I had this immense sense of pride come over me. While we were in this classroom talking about loving people and building relationships, my wife was out there doing it. You see my wife works with a wonderful lady who is a lesbian (we’ll call here Lisa). Unfortunately Lisa’s experience with Christians in the past has not been that good.Last night everyone from my wife’s job went out to eat together. Afterwards they decided they were going to the lesbian bar to watch Lisa sing karaoke.

Now the typical response that Lisa might have received from a Christian would have been two fold. One it’s a bar…so no. Two it’s a lesbian bar…so hell no (although they probable would have said heck no or something like that). But my wonderful wife’s response was, “Really, I can come!” (I love my wife). I don’t know if Lisa will ever become a follower of Christ, but I do know that she will know what it is to be loved by a Christian. In the words of my wife when asked by another one of the lesbian ladies there:

“Aren’t you going to try to save me?”

“I don’t do that.”

I think we all need to step back and realize that we don’t save people…Jesus does. It’s just our job to love them. Where are the places that you wouldn’t go? How long have you been talking about loving people and yet you still don’t do it with your actions? Who is in your life right now that you are trying to save…when you need to be loving and let Jesus to the saving?

p.s. I was really bummed that I didn’t get to go…but they said I can go next time.