To all the Single Ladies (and Men)
Just got done reading the following article. If you’re single or don’t have kids or both, read it and then I have a few thoughts for you.
Most people without kids don’t realize the stress and time that is envolved with raising children. I don’t know how many times I’ve talked to a single person and wanted to smack them when they say, “I’m so busy! I just don’t have time to __________.” Normally their excuse is that they are working a part-time job and taking the bare minimum of credit hours at school. Then for some reason they feel they have the right to look down on their married friends who only have a job and a kid to raise.
The reality that this article presents is that raising children (especially a stay at home mom) is probably one of the hardest “jobs” out there. It is a strenuous joy that you can never truly understand until you get to undertake it yourself.
So here is my challenge. Instead of living in your bubble, step back and evaluate how you could serve and sacrifice for your friends who have kids. When the next great movie comes out, watch your friends kids so they can see it instead of seeing it yourself (it’s called sacrifice). Show up randomly and do some household work (cleaning, dishes, dusting, laundry, etc.). Take their kids out and let them have a quiet night at home. Hang out with mom and give her some adult conversation during the day.
I can tell you from experience, these are some of the greatest blessing you can give to parents.
Asa is a Stud
Asa was in a wedding a few weeks ago. The dude was a stud. We got him a haircut and a new outfit. Yes I put a chain on him.
Great time in the park today.
Had a great time in the park tonight with Asa. The boy is fearless. He was climbing thing the 4-year-olds were scared of. We better buy some more health insurance.
Yeah he has cowboy in his blood….
Haven’t shared anything about Asa in awhile. So I thought I would put up a quick video. The boy is talking and being his typical awesome self. I love how he says “cow.” It’s like he’s from Boston. Enjoy.
Asa v. the Dog Door – Round 2
This video is of Asa’s struggle with Cali’s dog door. See who wins the battle this time.
Asa v. the Dog Door
Asa discovered that he isn’t quite small enough to fit through Cali’s dog door. He hasn’t really gone near it since this happened.
Asa is fearless
We went to a friend’s son’s birthday party last week at the local community center. The place has a sprinkler park that is pretty sweet. We didn’t know how Asa would react, but we brought his swim trunks anyways. He was a little hesitant at first, but as soon as he got wet it was hard to keep him out. He was crawling all over the place. It was awesome.
Asa is walking!
Asa took his first steps a little over a month ago, but he decided to get serious about it today. We got some video of it. So I thought I would share. Hope you enjoy it.
Asa’s First Birthday Party
Here is video from Asa’s First Birthday Party. It was a lot of work, but we had a great time. I’m going to bed now.









